Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trouble gauging interest level

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Went on date with girl tonight. Nothing major, just a few drinks for hour or so

Got this message discourse via text afterwards;

Her....Did you enjoy ya self 2nite? x
me....It was fun. u? x
Her....Yeah it was fun x
me...want round two?
Her...where's my kiss lol. Hmmm yeah we could meet up again your interesting ha ha x

Struggling to determine if she's interested or not.

Any advice?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hyper2010 said:
Went on date with girl tonight. Nothing major, just a few drinks for hour or so

Got this message discourse via text afterwards;

Her....Did you enjoy ya self 2nite? xshe texts you = interest
me....It was fun. u? x
Her....Yeah it was fun x
me...want round two?
Her...where's my kissinterest - she wanted you to kiss her lol. Hmmm yeah we could meet up again your interesting ha ha x interest

Struggling to determine if she's interested or not.

Any advice?
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are you blind?

loook at the red I put in
 
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I am appalled ... by her lack of spelling skills. Do not sleep with that girl again! Teach her a lesson.



Ah, what the hell. :cool: Go ahead and sleep with her, then tell us how it went.

Just out of curiosity, because I am right now listening to Chris Isaak's Wicked Games on YouTube, do you have any favorite make-out music? Heck, why isn't there a thread about this. There should be a thread about this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wolfgang D said:
I am appalled ... by her lack of spelling skills. Do not sleep with that girl again! Teach her a lesson.



Ah, what the hell. :cool: Go ahead and sleep with her, then tell us how it went.

Just out of curiosity, because I am right now listening to Chris Isaak's Wicked Games on YouTube, do you have any favorite make-out music? Heck, why isn't there a thread about this. There should be a thread about this.
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My age is showing here...

"Drive" by the Cars
 
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how many kids and other fck buddies does this one have hyper ?
 
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You serious, broski? It's a green light! Go! Go! Go! Go! Go! Go!
 
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