You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Exactly. Same for you. If the girl is hot enough for you, you will **** her. But trying to use secrets from a book is not going to make himself look hotter. It's really not. If he's good to go then get in a situation to make that go possible. And It's not going to be by reading a book and trying to make yourself sexier through hidden secrets.mr_elor said:I guess my own personal view is that if a guy looks alright in the first place, then he's good to go.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes, I believe so. This forum has turned into a laughable material. Really, there isn't nothing more you could say about getting women. The key is only to become an alpha male, socially apt, and knows how to get what you want. As far as how to get there is a matter of personal experience and trial and error. You don't need this rule that rule, just be an alpha male and have some social life, you are done.DonJuanForever said:Guys I really believe this site is turning very much into a immature playground. I would rather come in here and see field reports, a guy getting a better understanding, etc., then most posts on here about nothing, basically a guy with nothing to do making up some posts about nothing. Most of you really need to understand this, you sit here in front of this computer right now, but you don't know if you will be sitting here next week. You guys need to find out what your passions are, and CHASE THEM. Read, read, and read until you have the knowledge you need to become what you want, it's all in the bookstores, internet, etc. I just see a lot of you wasting time, and time is either money, pvssy, or improvement. My question to you is, what are you doing with your time?