Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Exactly. Same for you. If the girl is hot enough for you, you will **** her. But trying to use secrets from a book is not going to make himself look hotter. It's really not. If he's good to go then get in a situation to make that go possible. And It's not going to be by reading a book and trying to make yourself sexier through hidden secrets.mr_elor said:I guess my own personal view is that if a guy looks alright in the first place, then he's good to go.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yes, I believe so. This forum has turned into a laughable material. Really, there isn't nothing more you could say about getting women. The key is only to become an alpha male, socially apt, and knows how to get what you want. As far as how to get there is a matter of personal experience and trial and error. You don't need this rule that rule, just be an alpha male and have some social life, you are done.DonJuanForever said:Guys I really believe this site is turning very much into a immature playground. I would rather come in here and see field reports, a guy getting a better understanding, etc., then most posts on here about nothing, basically a guy with nothing to do making up some posts about nothing. Most of you really need to understand this, you sit here in front of this computer right now, but you don't know if you will be sitting here next week. You guys need to find out what your passions are, and CHASE THEM. Read, read, and read until you have the knowledge you need to become what you want, it's all in the bookstores, internet, etc. I just see a lot of you wasting time, and time is either money, pvssy, or improvement. My question to you is, what are you doing with your time?