I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Exactly. Same for you. If the girl is hot enough for you, you will **** her. But trying to use secrets from a book is not going to make himself look hotter. It's really not. If he's good to go then get in a situation to make that go possible. And It's not going to be by reading a book and trying to make yourself sexier through hidden secrets.mr_elor said:I guess my own personal view is that if a guy looks alright in the first place, then he's good to go.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes, I believe so. This forum has turned into a laughable material. Really, there isn't nothing more you could say about getting women. The key is only to become an alpha male, socially apt, and knows how to get what you want. As far as how to get there is a matter of personal experience and trial and error. You don't need this rule that rule, just be an alpha male and have some social life, you are done.DonJuanForever said:Guys I really believe this site is turning very much into a immature playground. I would rather come in here and see field reports, a guy getting a better understanding, etc., then most posts on here about nothing, basically a guy with nothing to do making up some posts about nothing. Most of you really need to understand this, you sit here in front of this computer right now, but you don't know if you will be sitting here next week. You guys need to find out what your passions are, and CHASE THEM. Read, read, and read until you have the knowledge you need to become what you want, it's all in the bookstores, internet, etc. I just see a lot of you wasting time, and time is either money, pvssy, or improvement. My question to you is, what are you doing with your time?