Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Exactly. Same for you. If the girl is hot enough for you, you will **** her. But trying to use secrets from a book is not going to make himself look hotter. It's really not. If he's good to go then get in a situation to make that go possible. And It's not going to be by reading a book and trying to make yourself sexier through hidden secrets.mr_elor said:I guess my own personal view is that if a guy looks alright in the first place, then he's good to go.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yes, I believe so. This forum has turned into a laughable material. Really, there isn't nothing more you could say about getting women. The key is only to become an alpha male, socially apt, and knows how to get what you want. As far as how to get there is a matter of personal experience and trial and error. You don't need this rule that rule, just be an alpha male and have some social life, you are done.DonJuanForever said:Guys I really believe this site is turning very much into a immature playground. I would rather come in here and see field reports, a guy getting a better understanding, etc., then most posts on here about nothing, basically a guy with nothing to do making up some posts about nothing. Most of you really need to understand this, you sit here in front of this computer right now, but you don't know if you will be sitting here next week. You guys need to find out what your passions are, and CHASE THEM. Read, read, and read until you have the knowledge you need to become what you want, it's all in the bookstores, internet, etc. I just see a lot of you wasting time, and time is either money, pvssy, or improvement. My question to you is, what are you doing with your time?