"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Donjuanpablo

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Is it just me or has there recently been just a few too many posts being shoved and moved around from the discussion forum? I understand that the context of the forum means that it has to be pretty tightly related to seduction but there are quite a few threads with interesting discussions on the subject that are being put in the anything else forum. In my opinion there shouldnt be any seduction related threads in the anything else forum they should be left open for discussion otherwise the main forum gets, well, a little bland.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've also noticed a LOT of my threads have been deleted. I thought they were quite interesting, and was a bit surprised to see some of them disapear.

Maybe I am just too dumb to find them...or did the mod's delete a lot?
 
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Originally posted by Psycho`Sexual
Maybe I am just too dumb to find them...or did the mod's delete a lot?
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To which forum, specifically, are you referring?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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