"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Donjuanpablo

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Is it just me or has there recently been just a few too many posts being shoved and moved around from the discussion forum? I understand that the context of the forum means that it has to be pretty tightly related to seduction but there are quite a few threads with interesting discussions on the subject that are being put in the anything else forum. In my opinion there shouldnt be any seduction related threads in the anything else forum they should be left open for discussion otherwise the main forum gets, well, a little bland.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Psycho`Sexual

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I've also noticed a LOT of my threads have been deleted. I thought they were quite interesting, and was a bit surprised to see some of them disapear.

Maybe I am just too dumb to find them...or did the mod's delete a lot?
 

hardwork

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Originally posted by Psycho`Sexual
Maybe I am just too dumb to find them...or did the mod's delete a lot?
To which forum, specifically, are you referring?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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