"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Donjuanpablo

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Is it just me or has there recently been just a few too many posts being shoved and moved around from the discussion forum? I understand that the context of the forum means that it has to be pretty tightly related to seduction but there are quite a few threads with interesting discussions on the subject that are being put in the anything else forum. In my opinion there shouldnt be any seduction related threads in the anything else forum they should be left open for discussion otherwise the main forum gets, well, a little bland.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've also noticed a LOT of my threads have been deleted. I thought they were quite interesting, and was a bit surprised to see some of them disapear.

Maybe I am just too dumb to find them...or did the mod's delete a lot?
 

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Originally posted by Psycho`Sexual
Maybe I am just too dumb to find them...or did the mod's delete a lot?
To which forum, specifically, are you referring?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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