"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trigger Alert/Black Pill: Confidence Doesn't Work Unless You Are Good Looking

zekko

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Plenty of ways to improve. Not saying you'll be a 10 in everyone's eyes because of it, but you should only aim to be a 10 in your eyes.
I could never see myself as a 10, I'm too aware of my own flaws. Who would know them better than I?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I could never see myself as a 10, I'm too aware of my own flaws. Who would know them better than I?
We're our own biggest critics. But you can still look in the mirror and say 'damn, you're a handsome devil'.
 

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We're our own biggest critics. But you can still look in the mirror and say 'damn, you're a handsome devil'.
True. But statistically, people tend to think they are better looking than they really are.
 

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True. But statistically, people tend to think they are better looking than they really are.
Oh well, no harm done. Thinking you look good gives you confidence.

But if theyre failing and don't reflect on why they're failing (perhaps it's looks) then they're doing it wrong.
 
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