"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tried something different with tinder and these are the results !!!

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This morning I decided to try tinder out again from scratch and this time I made a few changes to the photos I used. I didn't go on the app to swipe and just let it sit for the day and when I got home I started swiping and I had well over 10 matches. I sent all of them a brief "hey" and received a response from one of them already.

Can someone explain to me how tinder game works, as in how long do you message before setting up a time to meet up, etc.
Shina
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Flow of conversation from men who don't get ass goes like this:

hey/hi
-> girl ignores usually, champs then send tons of additional messages
/but let's say she replies
I like your photos you are hot
blah blah
Do you want to meet, give me your number
-> at this point girl gives fake number, or send champ to fake location

Girls respond well to flirting. Use pickup lines instead of hey. Assumption that if you have better photos is correct, you get swipes, but still you have to do work, flirt. Assumption that if you got a ripped body doors will open up for you is also correct, but still you have to do the work, although less work.



Absolutely biggest problem on OLD will be conversation flows where girl don't give you enough to go further. What is that, busy with other dudes? I doubt it, they are all losers writing monotonous bullsht that is same from one dude to next, and all of it is platonic in nature. No interest? Perhaps.

Then second biggest problem are AW, they just want to flirt, they have no intention on going out with you. I created separate folder name AW and move them to it while never contacting them again.
 
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I might try tinder out again.
Does anybody know the max age that is set for the 18 age match range?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another fckd up thing that will make chicks run is if you look old but your age says different. You might think you look 27 while you are 38, but chicks don't think so.
Haha so you think I won't get away with it? I have in the past.
 

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Another fckd up thing that will make chicks run is if you look old but your age says different. You might think you look 27 while you are 38, but chicks don't think so.
And please be honest about height and criminal record! Have a driver’s license at least!
 

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And please be honest about height and criminal record! Have a driver’s license at least!
So what do you think about how I should get some 18 to 21 yr old women in tinder?
 
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