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Tricky Question about the approach?

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Hi everybody

I have an important question to ask. The reading said that you can establish eye contact when you are approaching a girl. My question is about the distance, for example, if i'm in a bar and see a girl across the room, should i wait for the eye contact before approach or i just get near her (like 3 feet away) and establish the eye contact more close to her and then start talking.

Any help will be welcome.

Thanks Steve
 

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you don't need to get close.
Didn't you listen to all those cheezy pop songs about two people's eyes meeting across a crowded dance floor.

If she doesn't look around the place...chances are that she isn't playing the game.
 
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Hi there

But how will i meet her? It's better to get close, establish eye contact and meet her. Or try to establish eye contact (like 10 feet away) and the get close to her and meet her.

Thanks for any help :)
 
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stop making a big deal over something so small...

Why are you making a big deal about this? If you see a girl at a bar, then make eye contact wherever u are... but eye contact is bullsh!t in my opinion... if you are interested in a woman, just approach her!


Laterz...
 
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You can establish eye contact from any distance, as long as you can both see each other. It doesn't matter if she's right next to you or the other side of the room, it's no problem in either case.

If she's close to you and you get eye contact, you can break the ice with 'that was a sneaky look you just gave me!' (said with a grin on your face).

If she's further away, then you can give her a smile as well as eye contact. You could also wave at her. Obviously you then have to walk over and talk to her. You could open with 'I couldn't help but notice you were looking at me' or simply 'hi, how's it going'.

Good luck, and remember that you don't need to get eye contact before you approach a girl. It's not 100% necessary, but it does help if you're the kind of guy that wants to test to see if she's interested before you approach.
 

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proper eye contact can only be established at a distance between 0.84 - 7. 28 feet. Anywere out of that range and your out of luck.

Dont get angry at me I DONT MAKE THE RULES. I am just a humble Ninja Keyaaaaaaaa
 
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