"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tricky Question about the approach?

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Hi everybody

I have an important question to ask. The reading said that you can establish eye contact when you are approaching a girl. My question is about the distance, for example, if i'm in a bar and see a girl across the room, should i wait for the eye contact before approach or i just get near her (like 3 feet away) and establish the eye contact more close to her and then start talking.

Any help will be welcome.

Thanks Steve
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you don't need to get close.
Didn't you listen to all those cheezy pop songs about two people's eyes meeting across a crowded dance floor.

If she doesn't look around the place...chances are that she isn't playing the game.
 
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Hi there

But how will i meet her? It's better to get close, establish eye contact and meet her. Or try to establish eye contact (like 10 feet away) and the get close to her and meet her.

Thanks for any help :)
 
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stop making a big deal over something so small...

Why are you making a big deal about this? If you see a girl at a bar, then make eye contact wherever u are... but eye contact is bullsh!t in my opinion... if you are interested in a woman, just approach her!


Laterz...
 
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You can establish eye contact from any distance, as long as you can both see each other. It doesn't matter if she's right next to you or the other side of the room, it's no problem in either case.

If she's close to you and you get eye contact, you can break the ice with 'that was a sneaky look you just gave me!' (said with a grin on your face).

If she's further away, then you can give her a smile as well as eye contact. You could also wave at her. Obviously you then have to walk over and talk to her. You could open with 'I couldn't help but notice you were looking at me' or simply 'hi, how's it going'.

Good luck, and remember that you don't need to get eye contact before you approach a girl. It's not 100% necessary, but it does help if you're the kind of guy that wants to test to see if she's interested before you approach.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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proper eye contact can only be established at a distance between 0.84 - 7. 28 feet. Anywere out of that range and your out of luck.

Dont get angry at me I DONT MAKE THE RULES. I am just a humble Ninja Keyaaaaaaaa
 
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