"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Treating your plates right

SoldMySoul

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Just curious for all you REAL DJs and wannabes. When you are spending time with each individual plate and have sex with them, do you give it your best? Do you try and do it like it is going to be her best ever? When finished with the copulation do you just get up and go or do you spend a little time with her holding her and cuddling some?

Thought about this last night when I was with mine. I put a little quality sex in there and held some when done. To me it would look really piss poor on your part just to hit it and run!! Any thoughts?????
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GuanYu

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personally I never hit and run. It's poor taste and any woman worth a damn won't stand for it unless it's a lunch time quickie or something similar.
 

sodbuster

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The goal is to keep them as plates isn't it? If you serve it up limp and lame,she won't stay a plate
 

The Forms

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Sex isn't about orgasms for women the way it is for men (yes, on average she'll prefer to have an orgasm with sex, but it's not the be all end all like it is for men). They want the closeness, and the "afterplay" (the term for cuddling and pillow talk after sex) is super important to most girls. She'll see you as classless and clueless if you just hit it and run. That's the girl equivalent to blue balls.
 

Vulpine

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"Plates" or "FB's"?

Plates have potential, and are treated differently (better) than FB's that have proved to have no potential and have been reduced to "functional".

Plates I'll hang around for, FB's I hit and split.

FB's are essentially plates that spin themselves in order to get laid, so there's no use in trying to spin them. Right?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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eyedea40

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I make sure I devote time to each plate, right now I have two. Hit and run are great for FB's but not plates. Between all the Hockey, MMA, work, friends keeping two happy is good enought for me.
 
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