"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Treating your plates right

SoldMySoul

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Just curious for all you REAL DJs and wannabes. When you are spending time with each individual plate and have sex with them, do you give it your best? Do you try and do it like it is going to be her best ever? When finished with the copulation do you just get up and go or do you spend a little time with her holding her and cuddling some?

Thought about this last night when I was with mine. I put a little quality sex in there and held some when done. To me it would look really piss poor on your part just to hit it and run!! Any thoughts?????
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GuanYu

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personally I never hit and run. It's poor taste and any woman worth a damn won't stand for it unless it's a lunch time quickie or something similar.
 

sodbuster

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The goal is to keep them as plates isn't it? If you serve it up limp and lame,she won't stay a plate
 

The Forms

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Sex isn't about orgasms for women the way it is for men (yes, on average she'll prefer to have an orgasm with sex, but it's not the be all end all like it is for men). They want the closeness, and the "afterplay" (the term for cuddling and pillow talk after sex) is super important to most girls. She'll see you as classless and clueless if you just hit it and run. That's the girl equivalent to blue balls.
 

Vulpine

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"Plates" or "FB's"?

Plates have potential, and are treated differently (better) than FB's that have proved to have no potential and have been reduced to "functional".

Plates I'll hang around for, FB's I hit and split.

FB's are essentially plates that spin themselves in order to get laid, so there's no use in trying to spin them. Right?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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eyedea40

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I make sure I devote time to each plate, right now I have two. Hit and run are great for FB's but not plates. Between all the Hockey, MMA, work, friends keeping two happy is good enought for me.
 
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