"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Treating your plates right

SoldMySoul

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Just curious for all you REAL DJs and wannabes. When you are spending time with each individual plate and have sex with them, do you give it your best? Do you try and do it like it is going to be her best ever? When finished with the copulation do you just get up and go or do you spend a little time with her holding her and cuddling some?

Thought about this last night when I was with mine. I put a little quality sex in there and held some when done. To me it would look really piss poor on your part just to hit it and run!! Any thoughts?????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GuanYu

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personally I never hit and run. It's poor taste and any woman worth a damn won't stand for it unless it's a lunch time quickie or something similar.
 

sodbuster

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The goal is to keep them as plates isn't it? If you serve it up limp and lame,she won't stay a plate
 

The Forms

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Sex isn't about orgasms for women the way it is for men (yes, on average she'll prefer to have an orgasm with sex, but it's not the be all end all like it is for men). They want the closeness, and the "afterplay" (the term for cuddling and pillow talk after sex) is super important to most girls. She'll see you as classless and clueless if you just hit it and run. That's the girl equivalent to blue balls.
 

Vulpine

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"Plates" or "FB's"?

Plates have potential, and are treated differently (better) than FB's that have proved to have no potential and have been reduced to "functional".

Plates I'll hang around for, FB's I hit and split.

FB's are essentially plates that spin themselves in order to get laid, so there's no use in trying to spin them. Right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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eyedea40

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I make sure I devote time to each plate, right now I have two. Hit and run are great for FB's but not plates. Between all the Hockey, MMA, work, friends keeping two happy is good enought for me.
 
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