"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Traveling is better than anything to meet women

Thechamp

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Traveling is better than anything to meet women , countries in Asia South America nordic countries Russia Ukraine , I honestly think if everyone was 100 percent satisfied in there current situation , would they really be on this site , saying I did this wrong , I said the wrong thing when you can travel and not worry about anything , women in those countries are much easier then stupid western women .
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skinnyguy

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Agreed. You're also in a vacation mentality which is to your advantage.

I'm all stiff at home cause I'm in work mode. When I go to Vegas or Mexico I'm like a different person. Helps that the women there are actually good lookkng lol.
 
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WAY too many US women are WAY too fat, tatooed, pierced, smoke, drink, etc. They are taking themselves off of the market. they HATE it that US men can so easily go to the third world and marry a beautiful, sweet LADY who is adentist, MD, engineer, etc. :) Somebody who can/will give you 35k per year for 3 years, cash, nobody else knows. Then if she does want a divorce, so what? But have your property owned by a Nevada corporation and don't leave any reference to it lying around, don't call them or email them from any device that she might have access to.
 

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And this is what pua always do take people's money

I always see rsd in Brazil sweden countries like That take students money so they can travel to get laid.
 

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I have no interest in the "western women are too entitled" argument but I agree travelling is a great way to meet women for the following reasons:

1. You are unique. You are the rare foreign guy / experience that is in demand. aka you have value simply because you are there.
2. All your time is committed to partying and adventure.
3. You are anonymous. Free from your social circle you are free to go all out, make huge mistakes and learn quickly. Bring afew tricks home.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I understand the fat complaint, but whats wrong with tattoo'd/pierced chicks?
 

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I use to not get the traveling thing but now that I travel I'm all for it....

I think it will do wonders to most men's psyche to meet women who are femine
 

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This is a phenomenon that I've observed over and over. A man who has traveled to the area from far away has a different scent or something that attracts women in droves. Then his accent seals the deal.
 

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Its a big world out there...my dream life would be to spend half a year in a new country the rest of my life, just keep repeating.
 

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I think that when I travel, I judge people less.

Like when I'm in Florida, I'm like "wow all the women are so hot and friendly here!"

My lack of judging translates into results. It's pretty interesting.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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