"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Traveling is better than anything to meet women

Thechamp

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Traveling is better than anything to meet women , countries in Asia South America nordic countries Russia Ukraine , I honestly think if everyone was 100 percent satisfied in there current situation , would they really be on this site , saying I did this wrong , I said the wrong thing when you can travel and not worry about anything , women in those countries are much easier then stupid western women .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skinnyguy

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Agreed. You're also in a vacation mentality which is to your advantage.

I'm all stiff at home cause I'm in work mode. When I go to Vegas or Mexico I'm like a different person. Helps that the women there are actually good lookkng lol.
 
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WAY too many US women are WAY too fat, tatooed, pierced, smoke, drink, etc. They are taking themselves off of the market. they HATE it that US men can so easily go to the third world and marry a beautiful, sweet LADY who is adentist, MD, engineer, etc. :) Somebody who can/will give you 35k per year for 3 years, cash, nobody else knows. Then if she does want a divorce, so what? But have your property owned by a Nevada corporation and don't leave any reference to it lying around, don't call them or email them from any device that she might have access to.
 

Thechamp

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And this is what pua always do take people's money

I always see rsd in Brazil sweden countries like That take students money so they can travel to get laid.
 

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I have no interest in the "western women are too entitled" argument but I agree travelling is a great way to meet women for the following reasons:

1. You are unique. You are the rare foreign guy / experience that is in demand. aka you have value simply because you are there.
2. All your time is committed to partying and adventure.
3. You are anonymous. Free from your social circle you are free to go all out, make huge mistakes and learn quickly. Bring afew tricks home.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cola

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I understand the fat complaint, but whats wrong with tattoo'd/pierced chicks?
 

Solomon

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I use to not get the traveling thing but now that I travel I'm all for it....

I think it will do wonders to most men's psyche to meet women who are femine
 

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This is a phenomenon that I've observed over and over. A man who has traveled to the area from far away has a different scent or something that attracts women in droves. Then his accent seals the deal.
 

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Its a big world out there...my dream life would be to spend half a year in a new country the rest of my life, just keep repeating.
 

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I think that when I travel, I judge people less.

Like when I'm in Florida, I'm like "wow all the women are so hot and friendly here!"

My lack of judging translates into results. It's pretty interesting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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