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I've been in Rome a few days, I've noticed the local girls here ( I mean Real Italian girls not the hordes of tourists) tend to be really friendly but know almost no English at all. While it is nice to explore new cultures I just don't really see the point in travelling to the other side of the planet just for girls. Actually moving to these countries,working and getting settled is a very arduous task.

Back home in Sydney, Australia the bar for men is undoubtedly higher though. In a sense I am caught between a rock and a hard place. In Europe I'm allowed to be a regular guy and the women are more mentally stable. In Australia I have my whole life there but at the same time the women have standards higher than the empire state building while offering very little.

Italian women are fine, idk why the men complain about their women. The guys do often give a very simple and desperate vibe. I have seen a lot of guys catcall women. Some of these guys act like they have never seen a woman before in their lives. It's honestly just weird af.

Is it better to risk it all for a fresh start and geo max or is it better to just find a local girl back in Australia,

 
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Dude, the formula is simple:

1) Only go to another country, that you have no prior roots in, if there is a particularly good career opportunity that will give you either significant skill boost, income boost, or social status boost. Ideally a combination of these things.
2) Only go to a previous country that you do have roots in if you speak the language fluently, have some cultural familiarity, and are willing to integrate into society for at least a year and a half.
 

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I've been in Rome a few days, I've noticed the local girls here ( I mean Real Italian girls not the hordes of tourists) tend to be really friendly but know almost no English at all. While it is nice to explore new cultures I just don't really see the point in travelling to the other side of the planet just for girls. Actually moving to these countries,working and getting settled is a very arduous task.

Back home in Sydney, Australia the bar for men is undoubtedly higher though. In a sense I am caught between a rock and a hard place. In Europe I'm allowed to be a regular guy and the women are more mentally stable. In Australia I have my whole life there but at the same time the women have standards higher than the empire state building while offering very little.

Italian women are fine, idk why the men complain about their women. The guys do often give a very simple and desperate vibe. I have seen a lot of guys catcall women. Some of these guys act like they have never seen a woman before in their lives. It's honestly just weird af.

Is it better to risk it all for a fresh start and geo max or is it better to just find a local girl back in Australia,

italian women are friendly but very flakey

That is the Italian culture , where men whistle after even the ugliest woman . Very Latin thing

Italian men are just horny and would f8ck even a rock if they could . Very competitive market where women are flakey and men super horny all the time

for Italian men , life is p8ssy

but I agree , going after women tk different countries is stupid . If you can not be decent in your own country , very likely you will also not be decent in a foreign country … unless you go to poor countries and mainly bang mediocre and sub mediocre women ( like the vast majority of guys who do this )

australian Women do not sound to me as you describe them , but again … only met a couple and all of them were tourists or just relocated to Europe

it can be also a thing that Australian men are quite good looking and very competitive on average , so if you are bellow average it is kinda game over . Different thresholds for different countries I would say

what is considered decent level in America for example ( outside the big rich cities ) most likely it is bellow average in Australia
 

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My N=1 experience with Aussie girls was meeting a couple of backpacker chicks at a Budapest hostel, they were on a video call with their fiancé's/LTRs, saying how much they love and miss them.

I woke up @ 4am to both of them naked, digging their suitcases and asking one of their friends "where are the condoms". Apparently there was an orgy next door.

Maybe I'm salty because I wasn't part of the orgy, but it left me with a bitter taste towards Aussie women, and women in general.
 

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My N=1 experience with Aussie girls was meeting a couple of backpacker chicks at a Budapest hostel, they were on a video call with their fiancé's/LTRs, saying how much they love and miss them.

I woke up @ 4am to both of them naked, digging their suitcases and asking one of their friends "where are the condoms". Apparently there was an orgy next door.

Maybe I'm salty because I wasn't part of the orgy, but it left me with a bitter taste towards Aussie women, and women in general.
first rule of LTR , never let your gf go on Holliday alone . If she does it , you have to move on

no excuses :)
 

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Italian men are just horny and would f8ck even a rock if they could . Very competitive market where women are flakey and men super horny all the time

for Italian men , life is p8ssy
Life is pusssy for Italian-American men too. The Italian-American guys, typically in the Northeastern USA, are big horndogs doing horndog stuff.

I agree , going after women tk different countries is stupid . If you can not be decent in your own country , very likely you will also not be decent in a foreign country … unless you go to poor countries and mainly bang mediocre and sub mediocre women ( like the vast majority of guys who do this )
Roosh did this for a decade. He traveled to multiple countries to have sex with women, In some countries, he stayed long enough to form romantic relationships, such as Poland. When Roosh was traveling, it was all Europe and South America. He spent more time in Europe than South America. He was also in Eastern Europe longer than Western Europe. Western Europe is similar in female attitudes to Canada, Australia, and the United States.

Dude, the formula is simple:

1) Only go to another country, that you have no prior roots in, if there is a particularly good career opportunity that will give you either significant skill boost, income boost, or social status boost. Ideally a combination of these things.
2) Only go to a previous country that you do have roots in if you speak the language fluently, have some cultural familiarity, and are willing to integrate into society for at least a year and a half.
Good formula. Even within the United States, you could move from one region to another and become rootless and lost. Moving from New Jersey to Kansas would be the equivalent of cross a multitude of European countries. Moving from Seattle, WA to Miami, FL would be even more than that.
 
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australian Women do not sound to me as you describe them , but again … only met a couple and all of them were tourists or just relocated to Europe

it can be also a thing that Australian men are quite good looking and very competitive on average , so if you are bellow average it is kinda game over . Different thresholds for different countries I would say
Italy is like a different world to me, I sat alone at a Cafe and two girls just sat right at my table. These girls have no inhibitions (real shame I barely know italian so it was hard to communicate with them). Something like that would never happen in Australia.

I'm 176cm, Taller then like 90% of guys here in Rome, in Australia I would say at least 40% of the Anglo Guys were taller then me. It was even worse in Germany were it felt like every guy was above 180cm.
 

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Italy is like a different world to me, I sat alone at a Cafe and two girls just sat right at my table. These girls have no inhibitions (real shame I barely know italian so it was hard to communicate with them). Something like that would never happen in Australia.

I'm 176cm, Taller then like 90% of guys here in Rome, in Australia I would say at least 40% of the Anglo Guys were taller then me. It was even worse in Germany were it felt like every guy was above 180cm.
Italian women are great . The problem is that they have a big attitude , but they are extremely feminine too
 

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Roosh did this for a decade. He traveled to multiple countries to have sex with women, In some countries, he stayed long enough to form romantic relationships, such as Poland. When Roosh was traveling, it was all Europe and South America. He spent more time in Europe than South America. He was also in Eastern Europe longer than Western Europe. Western Europe is similar in female attitudes to Canada, Australia, and the United States.
I really doubt he was sleeping with above average looking women
 

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Italian women are great . The problem is that they have a big attitude , but they are extremely feminine too
They would be better then Latina women in terms of personality if the men weren't such desperate horny corndogs. I feel like a lot of then are used to being approached all day, since one girl told me 2 guys already approached her on the way to the Cafe.
 

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I'm 176cm, Taller then like 90% of guys here in Rome, in Australia I would say at least 40% of the Anglo Guys were taller then me. It was even worse in Germany were it felt like every guy was above 180cm.
176 cm is 5'9" in the United States. That's borderline manlet status to White women in the USA.

Italy is like a different world to me, I sat alone at a Cafe and two girls just sat right at my table. These girls have no inhibitions (real shame I barely know italian so it was hard to communicate with them). Something like that would never happen in Australia.
That wouldn't happen in the USA either.
 

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Stupid idea and rarely works out unless you are running Greencard game which is basically borderline escort game anyways. You do this by being a westerner, going to a poor country where women are easy, and then using your financial resources to practically buy sex in some way. However, in any major society, the best women will generally get with local men and not outsiders.

If you do want to sleep with women of various nationalities, you can do that by living in a trendy part of a world class city. The two cities that come to mind are NYC and London. You are likely to get a lot of foreign women and a lot of them are likely DTF as well. However, be weary as the local culture of a city can impact the women's behavior. For example, the Russian women of Miami are all clout chasing gold diggers looking for a free meal.
 

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Stupid idea and rarely works out unless you are running Greencard game which is basically borderline escort game anyways. You do this by being a westerner, going to a poor country where women are easy, and then using your financial resources to practically buy sex in some way. However, in any major society, the best women will generally get with local men and not outsiders.

If you do want to sleep with women of various nationalities, you can do that by living in a trendy part of a world class city. The two cities that come to mind are NYC and London. You are likely to get a lot of foreign women and a lot of them are likely DTF as well. However, be weary as the local culture of a city can impact the women's behavior. For example, the Russian women of Miami are all clout chasing gold diggers looking for a free meal.
Also they spend thousands of dollars and tons of hours to fly to another country, when that time and money could be better spent at home improving yourself and dating local girls who are just as hot.

A lot of these Italian guys seem to have Asian girlfriends too, seems even Italians are doing some Geomaxxing
 
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italian women are friendly but very flakey

That is the Italian culture , where men whistle after even the ugliest woman . Very Latin thing

Italian men are just horny and would f8ck even a rock if they could . Very competitive market where women are flakey and men super horny all the time

for Italian men , life is p8ssy

but I agree , going after women tk different countries is stupid . If you can not be decent in your own country , very likely you will also not be decent in a foreign country … unless you go to poor countries and mainly bang mediocre and sub mediocre women ( like the vast majority of guys who do this )

australian Women do not sound to me as you describe them , but again … only met a couple and all of them were tourists or just relocated to Europe

it can be also a thing that Australian men are quite good looking and very competitive on average , so if you are bellow average it is kinda game over . Different thresholds for different countries I would say

what is considered decent level in America for example ( outside the big rich cities ) most likely it is bellow average in Australia
I agree. That's it basically. If you have game , you got it any where . Its delusional to think that women are easier , when you DONT have game and are unable to pull in your own country .

I wanted to make a thread about something similar. A guy I know is about to travel to the Philippines to finally meet his " girlfriend ".

They have a 4 year ldr, and her visum was denied. So, he'll travels to her.

Imo he is setting himself up for disaster. He didn't had s3x for years, and the information I got was that they having daily arguments about where to stay. She suggested family, he prefers a hotel.

He payed for everything and has 200 bucks left . Sometime, while he is there his next paycheck should come. High risk imo.

But the biggest risk imo is the fact he is blue AF, and horny AF. He doesn't realize that their first meeting will be nothing but a first date, where the woman will decide on the spot whether she really likes you. He had a Asian gf before this too, and she visited him for 3 months. They had s3x two times.

He is 40 yo, tons of debts and hasn't been with a woman in years. If she doesn't feel him, it will be a awkward, expensive and emotionally draining experience at best.

Yes fellows. Because he will have two demands; nice face and decent body. She'll have 50 demands..
 
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I'm not spending money and my valuable vacation time to fly to some third world country for easy psleeve. I would much rather just hire an escort if I was that desperate to get laid.
 

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I'm not spending money and my valuable vacation time to fly to some third world country for easy psleeve. I would much rather just hire an escort if I was that desperate to get laid.
True, but it's part of the deal. Cheap hotel, food, and *****
 

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Stupid idea and rarely works out unless you are running Greencard game which is basically borderline escort game anyways. You do this by being a westerner, going to a poor country where women are easy, and then using your financial resources to practically buy sex in some way. However, in any major society, the best women will generally get with local men and not outsiders.
Accurate

If you do want to sleep with women of various nationalities, you can do that by living in a trendy part of a world class city. The two cities that come to mind are NYC and London. You are likely to get a lot of foreign women and a lot of them are likely DTF as well. However, be weary as the local culture of a city can impact the women's behavior. For example, the Russian women of Miami are all clout chasing gold diggers looking for a free meal.
Miami would a good city for having sex with women in multiple Hispanic/Latina subgroups. Cubans and Cuban-American women would be easiest Hispanic subgroup woman to have sex with in Miami because there are so many of them. It wouldn't be unusual in Miami to have sex with a woman of Cuban ancestry, one of Colombian ancestry, one of Brazilian ancestry, and one of Venezuelan ancestry if given a long enough time period to accomplish that.

A lot of these Italian guys seem to have Asian girlfriends too, seems even Italians are doing some Geomaxxing
That tells you that Italian and many Western European men are not happy with the mating environments in their Western European nations. That's been going on for at least 2 decades.

Also they spend thousands of dollars and tons of hours to fly to another country, when that time and money could be better spent at home improving yourself and dating local girls who are just as hot.
I agree with this.
 
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True, but it's part of the deal. Cheap hotel, food, and *****
Idk how people are spending so much money abroad. My most expensive vacations have all been in the US because of lack of transportation, no hostels/budget hotels, and more expensive food options.
 

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Idk how people are spending so much money abroad. My most expensive vacations have all been in the US because of lack of transportation, no hostels/budget hotels, and more expensive food options.
Overseas holidays in general feel pointless to me now, these historical sights are nice and all but I really wonder if it was worth the 22 hour flight from Sydney and all the hours waiting in line. Sure it's nice but the amount of effort and money spent kinda makes it feel pointless.


That tells you that Italian and many Western European men are not happy with the mating environments in their Western European nations. That's been going on for at least 2 decades.
Ironic since they are the ones that caused the whole lopsided dating market lol, their simping doesn't work home so they have to resort to simping in a foreign nation.

A western man used to be exotic in Asia, these simps have ruined that too. The golden age is long gone now.
 

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I'm not spending money and my valuable vacation time to fly to some third world country for easy psleeve. I would much rather just hire an escort if I was that desperate to get laid.
How about a second world country?
 
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