Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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In2theGame

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Ive seen and talked to this girl for about a month and a half now.. shes always flirted and smiled alot at me, So today at lunch i walk in the store where she works and the convo went like this

Me: Hi, How are you..

her: Im doing good...

Me: hows school goin?

Her: Good... I have time off from school... how Have you been?

Me: ive been alright.. *smile*

Her: Your working?

Me: Yeah im on my Lunch Break..

Her: ohh... you havent come into the store much lately... *smile*

Me: ive Been low on money, I spend alot during the weekends..

Her: Oh.. You go out... With who you go with?

Me: ......why? *smile*

Her: Who you go with? With who?

Her:... Your girlfriend?

Me: *smile* I dont have a girlfriend...

Her: *kind of rolls her eyes*..... Yea Right.

I was thinking......She went back to doing what she was at work... What do you guys See this as?? what is this chick doin..
BTW, this girl has a boyfriend... What step should i take? Foward or Back Step?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well the whole "This girl has a boyfriend" comment changed everything I was going to tell you.

I was going to tell you that when she said: "Who do you go out with?" That you should have said, "Friday I am going out with you." or something to that effect, but since you added that bombshell ending, I am going to tell you to stay clear of girls who are unavailable. If they can cheat on their boyfriend they can cheat on you.
 

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Yeah i see what your saying. Why is she so concerned with who i went out with or curious if i went out with a girlfriend, plus assuming i have one... whats the reason behind it.. I wouldnt mind goin somewhere with this chick.. shes hot.. But i wonder if i should move this foward or just back off...
 

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Originally posted by In2theGame
Yeah i see what your saying. Why is she so concerned with who i went out with or curious if i went out with a girlfriend, plus assuming i have one... whats the reason behind it.. I wouldnt mind goin somewhere with this chick.. shes hot.. But i wonder if i should move this foward or just back off...
Sounds like you are going to do what you want to do regardless of the warning signs.

If you do go forward with this, and you notice yourself falling for this girl, I'd back off ASAP if I were you because this girl is throwing up some big time red flags already. If you insist on persuing this, then make it just a fling for fun, but I would advise even against that because I somehow doubt you will be able to stop yourself from falling head over heals for this girl.
 
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