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[loonyjuice]

When I talk to my subject, sometimes, I'll ask her how she's feeling, and she'll often reply, "Oh, i've got a headache." I'm not sure what this means or why she's saying it. Most of the time she comes to me to tell me this, it's not like I'm annoying her.

She also comes out with "I'm bored, I want to do something fun", so I reply such as what would you like to do. She'll then usually reply, "Oh, I don't know. Maybe sit on the beach watching all the hunky men, in the carribean." Or "Sit drinking coffee, in a cafe, in Sorento". i.e. usually some exotic holiday destination.

Can anyone help me sort out what she's expecting me to say to these?

Thanks in anticipation.

L.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

She wants sympathy, attention, and someone to entertain her! Give her neither sympathy or attention and tell her the best you can do is take her to 'Dunkin Donuts' instead of Sorento.

Tell this ho that there are mostly skinny men in the carribean!

 

[Tails]

her: i'm bored!
you: read a book.

 

[DJmonster]

"headache" is your que to give her a neck massage. Don't ask her, just do it. Or, you can bust on her first - Tell her she sure does whine a lot! (with a smile - then give her a massage to make sure she knows you're messing with her) She'll love it.

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by loonyjuice
She also comes out with "I'm bored, I want to do something fun

You only get bored if you are BORING!

If she tells you she wants to do something fun, then go do something fun. But don't sit there and talk about what you might want to do. Go do something you will both enjoy. Two bonuses here: 1 - You will be doing something fun, 2 - she will see you as a 'take charge' guy, this is a good thing to encourage.