"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey,first post. What is this girl trying too say about me? Here is what she said "then there is sweet john hes crazy but fun" Is this ******** or something?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hddbc11 said:
Hey,first post. What is this girl trying too say about me? Here is what she said "then there is sweet john hes crazy but fun" Is this ******** or something?
Hello sport . . . .

Gamble . . .Ask her , and find out yrself . .:box: No surer way . .

"Crazy but fun" . . .

Tell her you think she's fat but slim . .
 

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well, that line in itself isn't enough to tarnslate without hearing the context she said it in... who was she comparing you too?

The "crazy but fun" gets me... she shoulda said "crazy AND fun." then there'd be no question that she digs you.

Give us some context, man.
 

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Don't concern yourself with her little line. She's just testing the waters by saying something ambiguous. Go after her like you would if you were sure she liked you. You'll learn to enjoy the potential for being burned, it means you've graduated to someone with a sac.

And judging from the question, you may decide to give up if you meet any resistance. She may feign disinterest initially just to see what you are about, plow through that. Only take a flat-out rejection.
 

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This was in her myspace about me. I left out some of the personal stuff but here's more "then i have a weird friend derek but i love him cause he is my friend. then there is sweet john hes crazy but fun. that is pretty much me well not completely but.......... its a very short and small look at me i love you all! muah phillip <3" philip is her boyfriend but she flirts with me with touches and **** so she might be trying to mind**** me or something.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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again, shes just testing the water. she likes to feel her feminine power over you by flirting. girls will flirt with you even if they find you unnatractive in order to reaffirm their own value.

all that aside, if phillip is your friend, you won't even think about getting with this girl.
 

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I'm not really a friend of phil but I talk with him sometimes. Should I try too get the lay out of it or next her?
 

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you have to learn to guage the situation for yourself. the sooner you make mistakes the better.
 

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No context to mean anything. It sounds positive though.
 
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