"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey,first post. What is this girl trying too say about me? Here is what she said "then there is sweet john hes crazy but fun" Is this ******** or something?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hddbc11 said:
Hey,first post. What is this girl trying too say about me? Here is what she said "then there is sweet john hes crazy but fun" Is this ******** or something?
Hello sport . . . .

Gamble . . .Ask her , and find out yrself . .:box: No surer way . .

"Crazy but fun" . . .

Tell her you think she's fat but slim . .
 

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well, that line in itself isn't enough to tarnslate without hearing the context she said it in... who was she comparing you too?

The "crazy but fun" gets me... she shoulda said "crazy AND fun." then there'd be no question that she digs you.

Give us some context, man.
 

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Don't concern yourself with her little line. She's just testing the waters by saying something ambiguous. Go after her like you would if you were sure she liked you. You'll learn to enjoy the potential for being burned, it means you've graduated to someone with a sac.

And judging from the question, you may decide to give up if you meet any resistance. She may feign disinterest initially just to see what you are about, plow through that. Only take a flat-out rejection.
 

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This was in her myspace about me. I left out some of the personal stuff but here's more "then i have a weird friend derek but i love him cause he is my friend. then there is sweet john hes crazy but fun. that is pretty much me well not completely but.......... its a very short and small look at me i love you all! muah phillip <3" philip is her boyfriend but she flirts with me with touches and **** so she might be trying to mind**** me or something.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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again, shes just testing the water. she likes to feel her feminine power over you by flirting. girls will flirt with you even if they find you unnatractive in order to reaffirm their own value.

all that aside, if phillip is your friend, you won't even think about getting with this girl.
 

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I'm not really a friend of phil but I talk with him sometimes. Should I try too get the lay out of it or next her?
 

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you have to learn to guage the situation for yourself. the sooner you make mistakes the better.
 

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No context to mean anything. It sounds positive though.
 
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