"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charlie_aus

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Hi guys,

I have this chick that is into me - I guess i know this because we have fvcked a few times. Although she loves it we are only fvcking once a week. Damn I could go every night ...anyway.....

I seem to do all the spading, and she plays hard to get. She turns me down occasionally, YET I know she is a female chump because she is often at home and really not busy (goes to work on weekends etc)

I was thinking of getting control again by ignoring her for a while? Not phone/texting etc...maybe catch up with some other chicks - she knows I am keen and if she REALLY wants me, she will come - right?

Thoughts?

Cheers

-C
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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squirrels

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Don't over-complicate things.

If you're horny, go get some from her. If she's not up for it, find a girl who is.

Don't put the focus on her, don't get into a power struggle. BE IN CONTROL.

BTW...girls have this thing happen every month or so...they should've taught you about it in school. Might explain why she occasionally rejects you. :woo:
 

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Mmmmmm WERE THE FU*K IS THE ******** THAT YOUR ASKING TO BE TRANSLATED YOU FOOL.

Is this that same girl from work you were crying about one month ago because she never initiates.

-MAYBE SHE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
-Maybe your sh*t in bed
-Maybe she’s fu*king other guys
-Maybe she’s self conscious about her body
-Maybe your boring and she fu*ks you out of convenience

DOSE IT FU*KING MATTER. You have been complaining about her for a month now if you haven’t changed **** yet YOUR NOT GOING TO. So either live with it or grow some balls and find a new girl.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Charlie_aus

I seem to do all the spading, and she plays hard to get.
Spading. Now there's a term I haven't heard in a while.

Where you from Charlie?
 

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Re: Re: Translate: ********....

Originally posted by manuva
Spading. Now there's a term I haven't heard in a while.

Where you from Charlie?
This thread is full of bad karma, but I think it's pretty obvious that he's from Australia :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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