Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Charlie_aus

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Hi guys,

I have this chick that is into me - I guess i know this because we have fvcked a few times. Although she loves it we are only fvcking once a week. Damn I could go every night ...anyway.....

I seem to do all the spading, and she plays hard to get. She turns me down occasionally, YET I know she is a female chump because she is often at home and really not busy (goes to work on weekends etc)

I was thinking of getting control again by ignoring her for a while? Not phone/texting etc...maybe catch up with some other chicks - she knows I am keen and if she REALLY wants me, she will come - right?

Thoughts?

Cheers

-C
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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squirrels

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Don't over-complicate things.

If you're horny, go get some from her. If she's not up for it, find a girl who is.

Don't put the focus on her, don't get into a power struggle. BE IN CONTROL.

BTW...girls have this thing happen every month or so...they should've taught you about it in school. Might explain why she occasionally rejects you. :woo:
 

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Mmmmmm WERE THE FU*K IS THE ******** THAT YOUR ASKING TO BE TRANSLATED YOU FOOL.

Is this that same girl from work you were crying about one month ago because she never initiates.

-MAYBE SHE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
-Maybe your sh*t in bed
-Maybe she’s fu*king other guys
-Maybe she’s self conscious about her body
-Maybe your boring and she fu*ks you out of convenience

DOSE IT FU*KING MATTER. You have been complaining about her for a month now if you haven’t changed **** yet YOUR NOT GOING TO. So either live with it or grow some balls and find a new girl.

Ninja out
 

manuva

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Originally posted by Charlie_aus

I seem to do all the spading, and she plays hard to get.
Spading. Now there's a term I haven't heard in a while.

Where you from Charlie?
 

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Re: Re: Translate: ********....

Originally posted by manuva
Spading. Now there's a term I haven't heard in a while.

Where you from Charlie?
This thread is full of bad karma, but I think it's pretty obvious that he's from Australia :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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