"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Charlie_aus

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Hi guys,

I have this chick that is into me - I guess i know this because we have fvcked a few times. Although she loves it we are only fvcking once a week. Damn I could go every night ...anyway.....

I seem to do all the spading, and she plays hard to get. She turns me down occasionally, YET I know she is a female chump because she is often at home and really not busy (goes to work on weekends etc)

I was thinking of getting control again by ignoring her for a while? Not phone/texting etc...maybe catch up with some other chicks - she knows I am keen and if she REALLY wants me, she will come - right?

Thoughts?

Cheers

-C
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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squirrels

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Don't over-complicate things.

If you're horny, go get some from her. If she's not up for it, find a girl who is.

Don't put the focus on her, don't get into a power struggle. BE IN CONTROL.

BTW...girls have this thing happen every month or so...they should've taught you about it in school. Might explain why she occasionally rejects you. :woo:
 

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Mmmmmm WERE THE FU*K IS THE ******** THAT YOUR ASKING TO BE TRANSLATED YOU FOOL.

Is this that same girl from work you were crying about one month ago because she never initiates.

-MAYBE SHE JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU.
-Maybe your sh*t in bed
-Maybe she’s fu*king other guys
-Maybe she’s self conscious about her body
-Maybe your boring and she fu*ks you out of convenience

DOSE IT FU*KING MATTER. You have been complaining about her for a month now if you haven’t changed **** yet YOUR NOT GOING TO. So either live with it or grow some balls and find a new girl.

Ninja out
 

manuva

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Originally posted by Charlie_aus

I seem to do all the spading, and she plays hard to get.
Spading. Now there's a term I haven't heard in a while.

Where you from Charlie?
 

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Re: Re: Translate: ********....

Originally posted by manuva
Spading. Now there's a term I haven't heard in a while.

Where you from Charlie?
This thread is full of bad karma, but I think it's pretty obvious that he's from Australia :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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