"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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date yesterday. I was somewhat heavy on the kino, and it isn't that she didn't reciprocate, it's more that she didn't reciprocate enough to my liking. she never asked me to stop, and for the better part of two hours my hand/arm was on her thigh and our legs were intertwined.

anyway, while we were sitting like this she was telling me a story about this guy we both know who likes to touch her and flirt with her. she said she hates to be touched by him, and that he asked for her number but she didn't give it to him.

I have her number.
I was touching her.

should I take this as her way of saying she likes me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nope, she hates you. better get rid of her...:rolleyes:
 
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When a woman has her legs intertwined within another man's legs this is a sign of intense dislike!:rolleyes:

Can anyone else add any more sarcastic replys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I never divulge my personal business at an intimate level. We are just toying with you, don't be so serious. Of course she likes you -I expect an update to follow.

I have a field report that needs updating...I have a thread out there..titled, "I have a personal ad on Yahoo" or something like that...do a search.
 
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