"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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date yesterday. I was somewhat heavy on the kino, and it isn't that she didn't reciprocate, it's more that she didn't reciprocate enough to my liking. she never asked me to stop, and for the better part of two hours my hand/arm was on her thigh and our legs were intertwined.

anyway, while we were sitting like this she was telling me a story about this guy we both know who likes to touch her and flirt with her. she said she hates to be touched by him, and that he asked for her number but she didn't give it to him.

I have her number.
I was touching her.

should I take this as her way of saying she likes me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nope, she hates you. better get rid of her...:rolleyes:
 
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When a woman has her legs intertwined within another man's legs this is a sign of intense dislike!:rolleyes:

Can anyone else add any more sarcastic replys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I never divulge my personal business at an intimate level. We are just toying with you, don't be so serious. Of course she likes you -I expect an update to follow.

I have a field report that needs updating...I have a thread out there..titled, "I have a personal ad on Yahoo" or something like that...do a search.
 
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