Transitioning to phone help

[sigma335]

Ok so im trying to number close this girl on pof. New to online dating. Here is the last message she sent me. First contacted her a few days ago.

Her: hey, dont think that i am smart and everybody loves me ok, just kidding but im cool and no, i dont like to cook but sometimes i do do u


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What I have written to send her(would be my 3rd message sending her). I have failed to get past 1 or 2 messages with a few girls now and only number closed 1 fugly chick to give me some confidence.

Me: I like to eat more than I like to cook lol Hey playing email tag on here is pretty lame. How bout you give me your phone number and we go from there?



I feel like it is too scripted. Also english is not her 1st language. I am not sweating this chick(HB 7.5) btw but trying to improve my skills here. Thanks.

 

[DondottaJuanpappa]

Me: I like to eat more than I like to cook lol Hey playing email tag on here is pretty lame. How bout you give me your phone number and we go from there?

^^^This was good to seal the number deal.

What I have written to send her(would be my 3rd message sending her). I have failed to get past 1 or 2 messages with a few girls now and only number closed 1 fugly chick to give me some confidence.

^^^This on the other hand shows signs of neediness and seeking approval.

 

[DondottaJuanpappa]

Do you know what it is you want from her?

 

[lakeshore]

i don't like your response at all.

Every girl that messaged me back more then once I was able to number close with this.

"So at what point do we exchange numbers?"

"mine is xxx-xxx-xxxx"

Then they either call me or they leave their number on the following email.

Simple.


So, just write:

I'm cooking right now!

So at what point do we exchange numbers?

mine is xxx-xxx-xxxx

 

[sigma335]

^^^This was good to seal the number deal.

Ok

^^^This on the other hand shows signs of neediness and seeking approval.

Trying to fix where I thought I was going wrong. Previously I went for the number after the initial message. My mindset is a work in progress.

Do you know what it is you want from her?

She is cute and has some qualities I like in a woman. As of right now...I want to see if she looks like her pics irl.

 

[Iceberg]

Trying to fix where I thought I was going wrong. Previously I went for the number after the initial message. My mindset is a work in progress.

I don't know much about internet dating, but I like your approach. You're too cool for the email exchange, let's stop dancing around on the internet and exchange numbers. Sounds good to me, man.

Definitely don't water that down with "At what point do we exchange numbers?" It just takes all the testosterone out of what you already wrote, and makes you sound like a tax accountant.