"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Transitioning "light" Convo's to JUICY ones..

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Hey guys. First let me say thanks to everyone on this site. I have learned ALOT and I have improved every aspect of my game from the approach to closes.

Here lately I have been talking to multiple girls (7+) and I seem to have the same problem with each. You see, I seem to be approaching well, because I always come over ****y/funny and I always drop a neg hit to get things going. I never have a girl give me a cold shoulder.
Once I get a convo going, however, it seems to get in this repititous cycle of me asking a light, open-ended question and them answering and rattling on a bit. The convo gets boring for even me after a few minutes...so whats a good technique to transition to a more "sexy" conversation. I know girls love to talk about dirty things, and so do I, but how can I transition over to a more interesting conversation like that without coming over as being a perv? I have 6 girls to talk to tomorrow at class..so much help would be appreciated! I have to number close 4 at least :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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drift king

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when she finishes yapping and there is an awkward silent moment just stare into her eyes and smile a little.. not so much that you look like a deranged perv but a little innocent smile.

eventually after a few seconds she'll be like 'what?' then you just say 'nothing.' then smile away. basically you're just teasing her.

do it again a couple times, this helps build up the flirting tension between you two then you can start dropping in lines that are innocent but can be percieved as sexual.. for instance if you're talking about food.. say to her 'so are you a big meat eater?' see what her reaction is.. if shes a dirty girl she might smirk a little and laugh.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You need to start flirting with them.
 

SamePendo

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Easy, what you do is that you close.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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