"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Transitioning "light" Convo's to JUICY ones..

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Hey guys. First let me say thanks to everyone on this site. I have learned ALOT and I have improved every aspect of my game from the approach to closes.

Here lately I have been talking to multiple girls (7+) and I seem to have the same problem with each. You see, I seem to be approaching well, because I always come over ****y/funny and I always drop a neg hit to get things going. I never have a girl give me a cold shoulder.
Once I get a convo going, however, it seems to get in this repititous cycle of me asking a light, open-ended question and them answering and rattling on a bit. The convo gets boring for even me after a few minutes...so whats a good technique to transition to a more "sexy" conversation. I know girls love to talk about dirty things, and so do I, but how can I transition over to a more interesting conversation like that without coming over as being a perv? I have 6 girls to talk to tomorrow at class..so much help would be appreciated! I have to number close 4 at least :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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drift king

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when she finishes yapping and there is an awkward silent moment just stare into her eyes and smile a little.. not so much that you look like a deranged perv but a little innocent smile.

eventually after a few seconds she'll be like 'what?' then you just say 'nothing.' then smile away. basically you're just teasing her.

do it again a couple times, this helps build up the flirting tension between you two then you can start dropping in lines that are innocent but can be percieved as sexual.. for instance if you're talking about food.. say to her 'so are you a big meat eater?' see what her reaction is.. if shes a dirty girl she might smirk a little and laugh.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You need to start flirting with them.
 

SamePendo

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Easy, what you do is that you close.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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