"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Transitioning "light" Convo's to JUICY ones..

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Hey guys. First let me say thanks to everyone on this site. I have learned ALOT and I have improved every aspect of my game from the approach to closes.

Here lately I have been talking to multiple girls (7+) and I seem to have the same problem with each. You see, I seem to be approaching well, because I always come over ****y/funny and I always drop a neg hit to get things going. I never have a girl give me a cold shoulder.
Once I get a convo going, however, it seems to get in this repititous cycle of me asking a light, open-ended question and them answering and rattling on a bit. The convo gets boring for even me after a few minutes...so whats a good technique to transition to a more "sexy" conversation. I know girls love to talk about dirty things, and so do I, but how can I transition over to a more interesting conversation like that without coming over as being a perv? I have 6 girls to talk to tomorrow at class..so much help would be appreciated! I have to number close 4 at least :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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when she finishes yapping and there is an awkward silent moment just stare into her eyes and smile a little.. not so much that you look like a deranged perv but a little innocent smile.

eventually after a few seconds she'll be like 'what?' then you just say 'nothing.' then smile away. basically you're just teasing her.

do it again a couple times, this helps build up the flirting tension between you two then you can start dropping in lines that are innocent but can be percieved as sexual.. for instance if you're talking about food.. say to her 'so are you a big meat eater?' see what her reaction is.. if shes a dirty girl she might smirk a little and laugh.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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You need to start flirting with them.
 
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Easy, what you do is that you close.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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