Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Transitioning "light" Convo's to JUICY ones..

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Hey guys. First let me say thanks to everyone on this site. I have learned ALOT and I have improved every aspect of my game from the approach to closes.

Here lately I have been talking to multiple girls (7+) and I seem to have the same problem with each. You see, I seem to be approaching well, because I always come over ****y/funny and I always drop a neg hit to get things going. I never have a girl give me a cold shoulder.
Once I get a convo going, however, it seems to get in this repititous cycle of me asking a light, open-ended question and them answering and rattling on a bit. The convo gets boring for even me after a few minutes...so whats a good technique to transition to a more "sexy" conversation. I know girls love to talk about dirty things, and so do I, but how can I transition over to a more interesting conversation like that without coming over as being a perv? I have 6 girls to talk to tomorrow at class..so much help would be appreciated! I have to number close 4 at least :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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drift king

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when she finishes yapping and there is an awkward silent moment just stare into her eyes and smile a little.. not so much that you look like a deranged perv but a little innocent smile.

eventually after a few seconds she'll be like 'what?' then you just say 'nothing.' then smile away. basically you're just teasing her.

do it again a couple times, this helps build up the flirting tension between you two then you can start dropping in lines that are innocent but can be percieved as sexual.. for instance if you're talking about food.. say to her 'so are you a big meat eater?' see what her reaction is.. if shes a dirty girl she might smirk a little and laugh.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You need to start flirting with them.
 

SamePendo

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Easy, what you do is that you close.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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