undesputable
Master Don Juan
Is it possible to go to a 4 year univeristy, do the first 2 years there and then transfer to another 4 year univeristy? or do you HAVE to go to a 2 year institution to be able to tranfer to a 4 year uni?
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
thats what i want to do.... Im in Houston so i was thinking about just going to UH for the first two years and although money isnt such a big issue i can save around $20k on expenses that i would need to take if i went somewhere else out of town. The only issue i have with this is that id have to stay living at home another year or 2, and if by the end of the 2 years or when im 20 years old i dont have enough money to move out on my own and at least live cheaply, then im thinking about transfering somewhere else.Originally posted by Coolage
If money isn't an issue, you would be better on average to go to a 4 year university and work as hard as you can. then transfer after a year or two.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
what get drunk everyday, and party like a mad man? been there done that. people go to college out of town excatly for these reasons and thats why i was thinking about going out of town to college for too. But i think that if i already have my own place, living complelty independently on my own, and having my own thing going on before i get out of college, will be more valuable than all the partying you can give me. when everyone my age is out of college, and theyre trying to make it on their own ill already be in a stable position and hell ill only be like 22....at 22 you can still do all the partying you wantOriginally posted by diceman
DON'T live at home during your student days. Get a place on campus.
You will miss out SOOOOOOOOOooooo much.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
undesputable, your plan sounds fine. also if you worked real hard for your first year or two you could get a scholarship when you transfer and be much better off.
I say go to a university then transfer because generally classes will transfer much more easily and be a better education.
I say go to a university then transfer because generally classes will transfer much more easily and be a better education.
ShizamDaMan
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You got the rest of your life to live in a stable position. Lving it up on campus has a lot of advantages. Meet important, powerful people. Make connections that will serve you well in the coming years. Work on your social and networking skills. Most importantly, have a good time.Originally posted by undesputable
what get drunk everyday, and party like a mad man? been there done that. people go to college out of town excatly for these reasons and thats why i was thinking about going out of town to college for too. But i think that if i already have my own place, living complelty independently on my own, and having my own thing going on before i get out of college, will be more valuable than all the partying you can give me. when everyone my age is out of college, and theyre trying to make it on their own ill already be in a stable position and hell ill only be like 22....at 22 you can still do all the partying you want
Are you in college already, or are you going to be an incoming freshman?
undesputable
Master Don Juan
no im not in college yet. i mean just because i dont live on campus doesnt mean that im going to be missing out on so much....I want to stay in town just so i dont have to pay an extra $8k per year on a ****ty dorm and other **** like that. ill basically just be coming to my house to sleep. so youre saying that i wouldnt have a social life or meet people bc i dont sleep in a ****ty dorm?
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
not that you wouldnt have a social life, but that you have to work harder for it.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
UnD-
I am in a smiliar situation.
I jus got back from taking two years off from school and am now going to start school nearby, then transfering after one year.
Almost all schools except transfers after one year.
What you have to worry about is if your courses will actually transfer.
I am in a smiliar situation.
I jus got back from taking two years off from school and am now going to start school nearby, then transfering after one year.
Almost all schools except transfers after one year.
What you have to worry about is if your courses will actually transfer.
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
well tell me...im not familiar with college life first hand....what is the difference living home and living in the campus? at the end of the day people who live on campus will go to their dorms and ill go home....whats the huge difference?Originally posted by Centaurion
not that you wouldnt have a social life, but that you have to work harder for it.
Well, this is where you & i differ. I've been thinking alot about life, about when i'm old & looking back on my life, what will my regrets be? What would i like to say i did?Originally posted by undesputable
what get drunk everyday, and party like a mad man? been there done that. people go to college out of town excatly for these reasons and thats why i was thinking about going out of town to college for too. But i think that if i already have my own place, living complelty independently on my own, and having my own thing going on before i get out of college, will be more valuable than all the partying you can give me. when everyone my age is out of college, and theyre trying to make it on their own ill already be in a stable position and hell ill only be like 22....at 22 you can still do all the partying you want
Have the best time possible Is the answer now. Not spend the whole of my life working for the future. Putting off all the fun, exciting & adventurous experiences untill I've reached a certain goal.
That 'goal' will never come if thats your attitude. You are YOUNG. You are FREE. College / University is basically the dream lifestyle. An actual eutopia. There are hundreds of people, your age, all living together in the same place, all looking to have a good time, partying, having fun. Why would you delibretly pass on that that just so you can live out a more stuctured, organised, predictible existance?
To think that living off campus means that you're not missing anything is WAY off the mark. Seriously, you'll get about 4% of the real student lifestyle.
I urge you, you only get ONE chance at living in college. You WILL have the best time of your life there. You will experience more fun than you thought possible.
Don't throw away the best years of your life just to save a bit of money. "Fun is the one thing that money can't buy".
Take a chance. Be a little crazy & do something for the sheer pleasure of it. Stop thinking so far ahead in the future that it stops you from living in the present.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
Im not one of those people who look at the past with regret, if anything i just live in the present and look into the future....doesnt mean that im living in the future. Im not trying to do this to live a more predictable, organized, boring, structured life. if i had money to wipe my ass with by all means i would go, but i dont and although i could make it work i dont think is worth it. Ive had crazy party nights and crazy fun just in high school, still leaving at home. so im not fun deprived to where im like oh **** id go to the end of the world to find some fun. ill still meet people and ill still go to parties, would i go to as many if i wasnt living at home, maybe, but i thought the point of college was something else other than going to as many parties as you can. im planning to major in buisness/entrepeneurship, and im not looking to get out and look for a corporate job, im looking to start a buisness even when im in college, so any money that i have is going to be invested in whatever im doing. also by the time im done with college ill be 22, not 60...22 is just one year after you can legally buy alcohol, just one year after you can get into clubs and **** like that, i dont see why college is the only place where i can have fun....dont limit yourself.
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