undesputable
Master Don Juan
Is it possible to go to a 4 year univeristy, do the first 2 years there and then transfer to another 4 year univeristy? or do you HAVE to go to a 2 year institution to be able to tranfer to a 4 year uni?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
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thats what i want to do.... Im in Houston so i was thinking about just going to UH for the first two years and although money isnt such a big issue i can save around $20k on expenses that i would need to take if i went somewhere else out of town. The only issue i have with this is that id have to stay living at home another year or 2, and if by the end of the 2 years or when im 20 years old i dont have enough money to move out on my own and at least live cheaply, then im thinking about transfering somewhere else.Originally posted by Coolage
If money isn't an issue, you would be better on average to go to a 4 year university and work as hard as you can. then transfer after a year or two.
what get drunk everyday, and party like a mad man? been there done that. people go to college out of town excatly for these reasons and thats why i was thinking about going out of town to college for too. But i think that if i already have my own place, living complelty independently on my own, and having my own thing going on before i get out of college, will be more valuable than all the partying you can give me. when everyone my age is out of college, and theyre trying to make it on their own ill already be in a stable position and hell ill only be like 22....at 22 you can still do all the partying you wantOriginally posted by diceman
DON'T live at home during your student days. Get a place on campus.
You will miss out SOOOOOOOOOooooo much.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You got the rest of your life to live in a stable position. Lving it up on campus has a lot of advantages. Meet important, powerful people. Make connections that will serve you well in the coming years. Work on your social and networking skills. Most importantly, have a good time.Originally posted by undesputable
what get drunk everyday, and party like a mad man? been there done that. people go to college out of town excatly for these reasons and thats why i was thinking about going out of town to college for too. But i think that if i already have my own place, living complelty independently on my own, and having my own thing going on before i get out of college, will be more valuable than all the partying you can give me. when everyone my age is out of college, and theyre trying to make it on their own ill already be in a stable position and hell ill only be like 22....at 22 you can still do all the partying you want
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
well tell me...im not familiar with college life first hand....what is the difference living home and living in the campus? at the end of the day people who live on campus will go to their dorms and ill go home....whats the huge difference?Originally posted by Centaurion
not that you wouldnt have a social life, but that you have to work harder for it.
Well, this is where you & i differ. I've been thinking alot about life, about when i'm old & looking back on my life, what will my regrets be? What would i like to say i did?Originally posted by undesputable
what get drunk everyday, and party like a mad man? been there done that. people go to college out of town excatly for these reasons and thats why i was thinking about going out of town to college for too. But i think that if i already have my own place, living complelty independently on my own, and having my own thing going on before i get out of college, will be more valuable than all the partying you can give me. when everyone my age is out of college, and theyre trying to make it on their own ill already be in a stable position and hell ill only be like 22....at 22 you can still do all the partying you want
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.