You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BB is a Passport Bro Keyboard jockey who thinks he got the chops to be a lower tier chad moving on
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Selling drugs on the street will drop more panties than anything in computer information systems.
So where in the h3ll are they?
DealerMaxxing? The problem with this is getting shot by other dealers, or going on a long vacation to place where everyone's underwear has a bulge, and you don't drop your soap in the showers.
Criminal type persona men attract women. Those are one form of the 'bad boy' that women find irresistible.DealerMaxxing? The problem with this is getting shot by other dealers, or going on a long vacation to place where everyone's underwear has a bulge, and you don't drop your soap in the showers.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They ain't where you are OP that's for sure lmfaooooSo where in the h3ll are they?