Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the short answer is, yes, stick with once a week.Snap87 said:hi. will training each body part 2 times a week be overtraining? I just want to to try it out to see if i see any difference in my gains.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is possibly the most retarded advice anyone has given out on this forum (and that's saying something). "Hard core heavy lifting" allows you to train 1 hour, 3 times a week, with an intensity that is enjoyable in and of itself. I'm curious about these other "less intense" ways to become attractive to women. There are no short cuts, and heavy lifting is appropriate for guys (and gals!) who want to weigh way less than 250 lbs of solid muscle. And diet is the key anyway -- if you don't want to get that big, lift hard & heavy but consume less protein and kcals.azanon said:I recommend only doing that hard core heavy lifting like Diesel has sticked if you want to do that just for yourself. If women is the #1 objective, there are less intense way to get fit and healthy that women will find just as attractive. When your Brad Pitts and George Clooney's start becoming muscle bound 250 pounders, i might become interested; but until then..................
unless you mean my girl, who trains harder on the weights than i do now and eats like she's 150Warboss Alex said:training like a girl and eating like you're 150
awesome! good for her! I'm sure you're a great teacher bro. And you can punish her when she doesn't do what you say.Throttle said:unless you mean my girl, who trains harder on the weights than i do now and eats like she's 150(sorry, can't help but brag, she's turning herself into one lithe kitty, by ignoring the conventional wisdom and occasionally listening to me)
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.