"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Traffic Lights Club Night: Tips?

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So itll be my first Traffic Lights Club night this saturday night and Im wondering if any of you guys have any tips on how to make the most of this?

Here are some of my thoughts:

- Go with amber
- Maybe ask for the three colours and stick em all on me!
- Hide my colour somewhwre so Hbs will have to guess...

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sounds like a matching game of some sorts. how does it work?
 
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Hey tosh,

Basically when entering the club they ask you what colour sticker you want:

Red = Im taken, dont come near me

Amber = I may be available, try me out!

Green = Im easy! Try me now!

This should be fun!
 
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when i used to go to these at uni, a lot of people wore all 3.

if you wear green, you look desperate, amber, you basically would be up for it if the girl is fit, which is the same as always really.... and red obviously no one is going to approach you.

I reckon your best bet might be to wear no colours, then girls may approach and ask why not?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Green - Bring it on
Amber - Try it on
Red - Dream on.
 
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