"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Traffic Lights Club Night: Tips?

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So itll be my first Traffic Lights Club night this saturday night and Im wondering if any of you guys have any tips on how to make the most of this?

Here are some of my thoughts:

- Go with amber
- Maybe ask for the three colours and stick em all on me!
- Hide my colour somewhwre so Hbs will have to guess...

etc...

Thanks.
 

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sounds like a matching game of some sorts. how does it work?
 
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Hey tosh,

Basically when entering the club they ask you what colour sticker you want:

Red = Im taken, dont come near me

Amber = I may be available, try me out!

Green = Im easy! Try me now!

This should be fun!
 
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when i used to go to these at uni, a lot of people wore all 3.

if you wear green, you look desperate, amber, you basically would be up for it if the girl is fit, which is the same as always really.... and red obviously no one is going to approach you.

I reckon your best bet might be to wear no colours, then girls may approach and ask why not?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Green - Bring it on
Amber - Try it on
Red - Dream on.
 
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