There is this girl I work with. She said she is not attracted to me. But then she told me she thinks I am hot. She thinks attractive means looks. She said she isn't interested in me romantically. Then she said she likes me for who I am. Is said "why do you touch me?" She touches me a lot. But she says she touches me by accident. She said she is interested in me. I don't know what to believe. Maybe she is lying I believe she is although I don't know. Does she have any sexual interest in me at all?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
CalmCoolAndConfident
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This girl is bad news stay away from her at all cost, and when she does talk to you act like you could careless about her. She is bad because she will play with you like a rubber band, pulling you one way, then the other, untill you are a so ****ed up that you dont come back to that perfect circle. She'll warp, burn you, and eventually snap you. Bottom line, avoid her like the plague.
floydtheater07
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Yeah, I'd stay away from this one. No point in dealing with her mind games.
Should I quit work?
I work at Cinnabon. This one girl manager, we used to flirt. She told me how everybody in the store loves me. That was 5 months ago. I came to believe this still held effect.
I recentely I found out that this is no longer true. Employees have moved on. I just thought they all found me attractive.
However, I am tired of all of them touching me. I said I don't want anybody to touch me, unless they like me for who I am. I can't really call it sexual harrassment because they claim they can't control it. I want to quit. I still think some of the people still l love me but, I am not sure. I used to enjoy them touching me until the truth was revealed. I eventually found out that the girls were just touching me on accident.
Appearently, it hasn't worked. What should I do?
I work at Cinnabon. This one girl manager, we used to flirt. She told me how everybody in the store loves me. That was 5 months ago. I came to believe this still held effect.
I recentely I found out that this is no longer true. Employees have moved on. I just thought they all found me attractive.
However, I am tired of all of them touching me. I said I don't want anybody to touch me, unless they like me for who I am. I can't really call it sexual harrassment because they claim they can't control it. I want to quit. I still think some of the people still l love me but, I am not sure. I used to enjoy them touching me until the truth was revealed. I eventually found out that the girls were just touching me on accident.
Appearently, it hasn't worked. What should I do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
LoL.
I wish I could find a way to call it sexual harrassment. But, I don't know how. They claim, they can't control touching me on the, ass. The manager says she touches this other manager on the ass all the time, but the other manager says she hasn't? What is going on?
I wish I could find a way to call it sexual harrassment. But, I don't know how. They claim, they can't control touching me on the, ass. The manager says she touches this other manager on the ass all the time, but the other manager says she hasn't? What is going on?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
dude, any touching from the opposite sex is sexual harassment if you say it is.
google it and see.
google it and see.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tell them to stop before you file a sexual harassment charge, because it usually works.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Because I no longer find them sexually attractive.
They touch me on the ass. That is sexual harrassment. If they don't really like me for who I am then why like them? I don't find it sexually appealing at all. It is a complete turn off. Sure some of them are hot. It doesn't matter, if they can claim they like me for who I am all they want, but I don't buy it. Thanks for the advice though. They are playing mind games. As it said to pull my rubber band.
They touch me on the ass. That is sexual harrassment. If they don't really like me for who I am then why like them? I don't find it sexually appealing at all. It is a complete turn off. Sure some of them are hot. It doesn't matter, if they can claim they like me for who I am all they want, but I don't buy it. Thanks for the advice though. They are playing mind games. As it said to pull my rubber band.
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
This is one of those girls that, does "like" you. She's just saying she doesn't to hide her feelings. If you do get with her any bad news in that relationship will be YOUR FAULT. Trust me even if she gets crazy it will be all you fault.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
Um...why do you care whether or not these people love you or not? Man you're there to work and make money. Dont **** up your cash flow over some skanks that like to play games.crossboss said:
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
lol you don't make much of a cash flow working at freaking cinnabon.
And seriously, just tell these chicks to knock if off in the most serious tone of voice you can. You can't seriously be this much of a puss...
And seriously, just tell these chicks to knock if off in the most serious tone of voice you can. You can't seriously be this much of a puss...
Question
How do you know that this girl actually does like me? Could working in a close environment be a variable?.
Serialized tell them to knock it of? Like telling them to quit playing mindgames.
Blackjackal, See I don't particularily care if they do or don't like me. It's just the mind games that piss me off.
How do you know that this girl actually does like me? Could working in a close environment be a variable?.
Serialized tell them to knock it of? Like telling them to quit playing mindgames.
Blackjackal, See I don't particularily care if they do or don't like me. It's just the mind games that piss me off.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
It's pissin you off cause you're takin it seriously. If you dont like then tell them to stop. Or ask'em if they wanna fukk or not? In a serious tone of course.crossboss said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.