Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Touching her neck....
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
she does that hair thing too...damn it...I know she digs me, I just need to know what my next move should be.Originally posted by jason86
Yeh its a signal in my experience. Also like when they touch the end of their hair or start fiddling with their earing and start giving you that seductive look. Damn. I seriously dont know why they do it though.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
hmmm....Originally posted by Recluce
if the woman has any kind of nervous motions then she is either wanting to be kissed or wanting to get away from you. its very easy to tell the difference. she'll be looking at you most of the time if she wants you or looking at other things most of the time if she wants to get away.
because we live under the same roof...actually what gives with this girl why does she still do this **** after we both pretty much screamed at each other that we didn't have those feelings for each other?...Originally posted by BrotherAP
Why haven't you kissed her yet
I am not hung up on her like I once was but she does confuse the **** out of me...any clues here?...and why is she spending a lot of time with me alone in the lounge?.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.