"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Touching her neck....
- Thread starter Jaun_Don
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
she does that hair thing too...damn it...I know she digs me, I just need to know what my next move should be.Originally posted by jason86
Yeh its a signal in my experience. Also like when they touch the end of their hair or start fiddling with their earing and start giving you that seductive look. Damn. I seriously dont know why they do it though.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
hmmm....Originally posted by Recluce
if the woman has any kind of nervous motions then she is either wanting to be kissed or wanting to get away from you. its very easy to tell the difference. she'll be looking at you most of the time if she wants you or looking at other things most of the time if she wants to get away.
because we live under the same roof...actually what gives with this girl why does she still do this **** after we both pretty much screamed at each other that we didn't have those feelings for each other?...Originally posted by BrotherAP
Why haven't you kissed her yet
I am not hung up on her like I once was but she does confuse the **** out of me...any clues here?...and why is she spending a lot of time with me alone in the lounge?.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.