Touching girls vs letting them touch you first. What works?

[wifehunter]

Not true, I used to touch first all the time, without apologies and did whatever I wanted. It got me labeled as a bad boy, and it made them want to have sex with me, so I'm disagreeing with that

Sure, if shes only after sex also. It depends on your goals.

I'm after classy chicks.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

On second thoughts, there's something wrong with the title of this thread!

 

[RangerMIke]

I always let them touch first. If she doesn't I just move on to the next one.

Putting your hands on a woman before she is ready shows desperation and neediness. It's not Alpha and putting your hands on a woman as a method of escalation really only works on women in clubs and are looking to hook-up anyway.

 

[Konada]

I always let them touch first. If she doesn't I just move on to the next one.

Putting your hands on a woman before she is ready shows desperation and neediness. It's not Alpha and putting your hands on a woman as a method of escalation really only works on women in clubs and are looking to hook-up anyway.

So how do you project a sexual vibe without touching? Eye contact?

 

[NSX-R]

So how do you project a sexual vibe without touching? Eye contact?

Just grab them from the p*s**y.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Eye contact is important and you can project a sexualising vibe without touching. I guess the important thing is to do what feels natural to you, otherwise you come across as fake or try hard, guaranteed to repel women. It means you are also more likely to screen for someone who is similar to you in how much touch is a comfortable ammount.

All the Kino in the world ain't gonna do nothing though if you are not comfortable in your own masculinity and with being sexual.

 

[marmel75]

Sure, if shes only after sex also. It depends on your goals.

I'm after classy chicks.

Yeah, keep telling yourself that. All women can respond that way if you know how to get them aroused enough.

 

[RangerMIke]

So how do you project a sexual vibe without touching? Eye contact?

Yep, Eye contact and body language.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yep, Eye contact and body language.

Confidence. Once you are chock full of it, you won't think about it. These things will just happen. We mess up when we overanalyze or micromanage ourselves.

 

[KingBeef]

If your built AWESOME don't the tables turn in your favour, like your the "hot girl" and they are the lusty eyed guys? So you would do a very light kino if any, like a hug or something and lay back and wait for them to pinch your bicep, your pec, your thigh or your ass... They would hold you a little longer on a hug, and feel your strong back...

This...

I could attest to this. Develop a great outgoing personality, very friendly/personable and have an awesome build/body...you then become "the hot chick" where not only attractive women find a way of "accidentally touching you " multiple times because they can't help themselves but you can in return touch them in almost anyway because you're the sh!t (the tables of attraction have been turned in your favor).

Now with that being said, there's nothing wrong with being conservative and waiting for her to initiate...that's up to you decide. But be realistic on what you are bringing to the table, especially with younger women.

Men who have the whole package (gifted or thru hard work) can do almost whatever they want. It's just a cold hard fact. Trust me thru experience, the change of average to good looking is startling but you need to experience it for yourself if you haven't yet. It has been mentioned many times on this board before....the difference to women between a creep and hot guy touching her is her level of attraction in him.

So either be conservative or be "the Package" to make things easier for you....

 

[RangerMIke]

Confidence. Once you are chock full of it, you won't think about it. These things will just happen. We mess up when we overanalyze or micromanage ourselves.

Truth.

Women are very intuitive, they know when you want them. Just look them in the eyes and imagine you are having sex with her and she will pick up on this and get the right impression from you.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Yep, eye contact and that little smile that says, 'I know how to fark the he'll out of you'.
The woman I am seeing said, "you look at me like you want to devour me. “

She got the message. I didn't need lots of Kino as well.

 

[wifehunter]

Yeah, keep telling yourself that. All women can respond that way if you know how to get them aroused enough.

Good luck with the guarded ones... they have eyes like hawks.

 

[guru1000]

Putting your hands on a woman before she is ready shows desperation and neediness.

Quite the opposite holds true: If you don't touch a girl because you fear the image that you may portray by acting on a volition that both she and you know that you already have, then you have already lost.

Better to exhibit your desire in a strong frame than suppress your desire under the guise of "respect" in a weak frame. As once you fall prey to inaction because of this thought:

[It may] show desperation and neediness.

You're done.

 

[devilkingx2]

if you think her interest is really high, let her touch you

if you think that her interest may not be really high, you touch her.

if her interest is high then she'll touch you most likely so it doesn't matter which way you go

but if her interest isn't that high you might be waiting all night for her to initiate, and you don't want to waste all night

 

[AttackFormation]

Quite the opposite holds true: If you don't touch a girl because you fear the image that you may portray by acting on a volition that both she and you know that you already have, then you have already lost.

Better to exhibit your desire in a strong frame than suppress your desire under the guise of "respect" in a weak frame. As once you fall prey to inaction because of this thought:

You're done.

Man, where you been with these posts? we need more of this.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Don't initiate physical contact until she touches you first.

 

[NSX-R]

Where is Pook to put things into place.

 

[nismo-4]

Don't initiate physical contact until she touches you first.

Apply this thought if you like being friendzoned. Why wait? For her to make some sort of IOI that most men would miss? What if she don't touch you at all?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Apply this thought if you like being friendzoned. Why wait? For her to make some sort of IOI that most men would miss? What if she don't touch you at all?

I don't get friend zoned. If she doesn't initiate you kiss close at the date and continue to proceed the courtship.