"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Touching a girl a lot...

crossboss

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If you touch a girl a lot, and she smiles, is it okay to touch her on her privates?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol.. It's all about what you feel like at the time. If you feel like you woulnt get slapped when you reach out. then do it!
 

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I was thinking of

When I touch a girl on the the ass on the dance floor and she smiles...I also think it would be okay to kiss her next?

Also previous, if I touched her a lot, wanted to fvck her and touch her on her privates, kiss her, try to take off her clothes next?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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u been here 16 months and you ask THIS bullshyt?

your whole attitude is just creepy = good luck in jail
 

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Which part is the part(I am just working on speed seduction?)

that will get me thrown in jail?
 

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crossboss said:
that will get me thrown in jail?

why do you sound so clueless?? youve posted threads like this for over a year, i dont get how a human with a functioning brain can not even know such basic things......i mean, WOW

no saving you
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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touching girls should be spontanous and random or else it will seem creepy. You asking for opinion about this is not the way you should go about it.

the minute you meet an attractive girl you need to touch her and often to make her think you are a guy that isn't a creep, but is just naturally affectionate which is why you touch people. Shake her hand, put your hand on her arm, shoulder. You need to touch from the start to let her know that this is how you naturally are. If you don't do it when you first meet cause you're a wuss then when you do start doing it you will seem like a creep and send alarm bells off in her head thinking "why is he touching me now."
 

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do what your gut tells you and go with the flow
 
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