"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Touching a girl a lot...
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When I touch a girl on the the ass on the dance floor and she smiles...I also think it would be okay to kiss her next?
Also previous, if I touched her a lot, wanted to fvck her and touch her on her privates, kiss her, try to take off her clothes next?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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your whole attitude is just creepy = good luck in jail
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"Very nice, very nice....how much?" :crackup:
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crossboss said:that will get me thrown in jail?
why do you sound so clueless?? youve posted threads like this for over a year, i dont get how a human with a functioning brain can not even know such basic things......i mean, WOW
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Joe The Homophobe
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the minute you meet an attractive girl you need to touch her and often to make her think you are a guy that isn't a creep, but is just naturally affectionate which is why you touch people. Shake her hand, put your hand on her arm, shoulder. You need to touch from the start to let her know that this is how you naturally are. If you don't do it when you first meet cause you're a wuss then when you do start doing it you will seem like a creep and send alarm bells off in her head thinking "why is he touching me now."
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