“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hamurabimbi

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Touch from a woman hasn't been much discussed. It is a hard IOI. Two recent incidents to illustrate. A girl at my gym seems to have taken a shine to me. She's asked me out for a beer and wanted to hang out by the pool with me. I've been prevaricating, as I have a GF, though, I wouldn't mind hanging out with her. Today, she came up to me, put her hand on mine and said, 'I haven't seen you in a bit'. Another, a girl at work, who is flirty with me, literally climbed on me (like I was a monkey bar) to show me some equipment that was on a high shelf. I think guys should be looking for such physical contact and taking it as a strong IOI.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If a woman grabbed my crouch then I would think something is up. Like she was possessed or somerhing. That was my reaction when it happened in a store.
 

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Hrmmm while yes being the initiator is definitely where the money is, having a woman you’re attracted to touch you and lead you to sex is a nice experience as well.
 

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Touch from a woman hasn't been much discussed. It is a hard IOI. Two recent incidents to illustrate. A girl at my gym seems to have taken a shine to me. She's asked me out for a beer and wanted to hang out by the pool with me. I've been prevaricating, as I have a GF, though, I wouldn't mind hanging out with her. Today, she came up to me, put her hand on mine and said, 'I haven't seen you in a bit'. Another, a girl at work, who is flirty with me, literally climbed on me (like I was a monkey bar) to show me some equipment that was on a high shelf. I think guys should be looking for such physical contact and taking it as a strong IOI.
Yes, women often do that, but they always make it look innocent by having some kind of excuse. Any time a girl touches you or gives you to the opportunity to touch her, its usually a sign of strong interest.
 
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