"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hamurabimbi

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Touch from a woman hasn't been much discussed. It is a hard IOI. Two recent incidents to illustrate. A girl at my gym seems to have taken a shine to me. She's asked me out for a beer and wanted to hang out by the pool with me. I've been prevaricating, as I have a GF, though, I wouldn't mind hanging out with her. Today, she came up to me, put her hand on mine and said, 'I haven't seen you in a bit'. Another, a girl at work, who is flirty with me, literally climbed on me (like I was a monkey bar) to show me some equipment that was on a high shelf. I think guys should be looking for such physical contact and taking it as a strong IOI.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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corrector

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If a woman grabbed my crouch then I would think something is up. Like she was possessed or somerhing. That was my reaction when it happened in a store.
 

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Hrmmm while yes being the initiator is definitely where the money is, having a woman you’re attracted to touch you and lead you to sex is a nice experience as well.
 

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Touch from a woman hasn't been much discussed. It is a hard IOI. Two recent incidents to illustrate. A girl at my gym seems to have taken a shine to me. She's asked me out for a beer and wanted to hang out by the pool with me. I've been prevaricating, as I have a GF, though, I wouldn't mind hanging out with her. Today, she came up to me, put her hand on mine and said, 'I haven't seen you in a bit'. Another, a girl at work, who is flirty with me, literally climbed on me (like I was a monkey bar) to show me some equipment that was on a high shelf. I think guys should be looking for such physical contact and taking it as a strong IOI.
Yes, women often do that, but they always make it look innocent by having some kind of excuse. Any time a girl touches you or gives you to the opportunity to touch her, its usually a sign of strong interest.
 
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