"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Touch, touch, touch to avoid the friendzone...

marmel75

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Your goal upon meeting a new woman should be to get her used to your touch immediately...it releases oxytocin inside a woman's body and in the presence of estrogen starts to really turn her on sexually...

Easiest way to start? Give the girl a hug upon meeting her, or at least within 60 seconds. Touch her jewelry and ask her about it...touch her earrings...touch her hair and ask about the streaks, coloring, how she gets it to look so soft, etc...touch her shoulder or arm when she is laughing at something you said...

Touching if done right will get her more turned on than your looks, your conversation, and your smell combined.

Don't be the weirdo that takes 20 minutes to touch the woman..it will make her feel weird and you look unconfident. I personally like taking her hand, twirling her like a ballerina and then pulling her in for a hug or a dip...sends a positive message that you are comfortable with yourself and like having fun without saying a word...

Touch early and touch often and you will find yourself in the friendzone a lot less...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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evan12

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Good advise , but friends also touch , so I think without continues escalating he will drop in friend zone
 

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Some rep for you, marmel. I do this thing exactly.
 
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