"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Touch, touch, touch to avoid the friendzone...

marmel75

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Your goal upon meeting a new woman should be to get her used to your touch immediately...it releases oxytocin inside a woman's body and in the presence of estrogen starts to really turn her on sexually...

Easiest way to start? Give the girl a hug upon meeting her, or at least within 60 seconds. Touch her jewelry and ask her about it...touch her earrings...touch her hair and ask about the streaks, coloring, how she gets it to look so soft, etc...touch her shoulder or arm when she is laughing at something you said...

Touching if done right will get her more turned on than your looks, your conversation, and your smell combined.

Don't be the weirdo that takes 20 minutes to touch the woman..it will make her feel weird and you look unconfident. I personally like taking her hand, twirling her like a ballerina and then pulling her in for a hug or a dip...sends a positive message that you are comfortable with yourself and like having fun without saying a word...

Touch early and touch often and you will find yourself in the friendzone a lot less...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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evan12

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Good advise , but friends also touch , so I think without continues escalating he will drop in friend zone
 

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Some rep for you, marmel. I do this thing exactly.
 
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