"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Touch, touch, touch to avoid the friendzone...

marmel75

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Your goal upon meeting a new woman should be to get her used to your touch immediately...it releases oxytocin inside a woman's body and in the presence of estrogen starts to really turn her on sexually...

Easiest way to start? Give the girl a hug upon meeting her, or at least within 60 seconds. Touch her jewelry and ask her about it...touch her earrings...touch her hair and ask about the streaks, coloring, how she gets it to look so soft, etc...touch her shoulder or arm when she is laughing at something you said...

Touching if done right will get her more turned on than your looks, your conversation, and your smell combined.

Don't be the weirdo that takes 20 minutes to touch the woman..it will make her feel weird and you look unconfident. I personally like taking her hand, twirling her like a ballerina and then pulling her in for a hug or a dip...sends a positive message that you are comfortable with yourself and like having fun without saying a word...

Touch early and touch often and you will find yourself in the friendzone a lot less...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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evan12

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Good advise , but friends also touch , so I think without continues escalating he will drop in friend zone
 

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Some rep for you, marmel. I do this thing exactly.
 
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