rgeere
Master Don Juan
This chick would be classy if she wasn't so sarcastic ....
http://okcupid.com/profile?tuid=3476209667812050719
http://okcupid.com/profile?tuid=3476209667812050719
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Totally the worst personal I have seen, ever!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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No, no she wouldn't.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Not even close to classy, or hot for that matter. By the way, rge.. you've been around long enough to know that this isn't a secondary forum on which to discuss how hot or classy a chick that you saw on an internet rating/dating site is...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
I don't really find her all that hot, either. I just don't really think it does her justice that she made a personal that was so intentionally horrible with the disgusting sarcasm. Of course, the sarcasm is a defense mechanism because she doesn't see herself as attractive [and that could be reinforced through others].
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That chick got issues and problems. When I see someone making a face on a personal picture its a turn off especially when they stick fries up their nose. Her profile is a total joke and I bet it is out of desperation.
Check out this attension wh0re profile I found.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile?tuid=9739988241163222536
"I got onto this site to see how many guys would message me (and my friends made me sign up). After all, I LOVE the attention."
Her profile says it all. This is the kind of chick that most guys would want to fvck, she probably already has illegitimate kids running around.
Check out this attension wh0re profile I found.
http://www.okcupid.com/profile?tuid=9739988241163222536
"I got onto this site to see how many guys would message me (and my friends made me sign up). After all, I LOVE the attention.
"Her profile says it all. This is the kind of chick that most guys would want to fvck, she probably already has illegitimate kids running around.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Man, they both have problems ...
Notice how it only shows her boobs ... How are we suppose to know what she really looks like?
Notice how it only shows her boobs ... How are we suppose to know what she really looks like?
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Yah, she looks sort of like a girl that use to be somewhat sweet on me a few years ago, especially in the facial area.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.